First, welcome to this Forum.
Question, What does your House Rules state on Behavior. What about Hiring and Firing practices. These should be in those rules.
The Censoring you seek seems reasonable. Have you contacted your Post's Ladies Auxiliary President? As there is an infraction, using the proper Chain of Command should be used through your Post Commander. This is a Club Violation and the Post has the rule on this one as far as suspension from the Club goes, Follow the rules of the Club.
Just some points to consider.....